Building your Business Dream while Running a Happy Home (Guest Post)

First of all: Thank you, Keaidy, for letting me share my
story of overcoming one of the biggest challenges I had to face when I started
my journey as a mom entrepreneur.
I would love to introduce myself:
I am Charlotte Duzong, born in Aruba, living in The
Netherlands with my two amazing children Kate and Spencer, my partner
Jan-Willem and our dog Beaxa. I speak English, Dutch, Spanish and Papiamento. I
am an ideas-person who is passionate about helping moms manage their home and
business efficiently. I am a recovering night owl, I thrive on supporting
systems and habits and enjoy drinking pinja colada virgin in the sun :-)
Having said that I want to add that I wasn't always
organized and efficient. I was the total opposite.
When I started my entrepreneurial journey I thought that working from home would give
me the freedom to build my business and be there for my children whenever they
needed me ( just as good moms do)
Unfortunately I wasn't even close. With two kids under the
age of two, I was overwhelmed, exhausted and restless all the time. I was
struggling and hoping that one day my life would be less chaotic.
Most of the time I felt guilty. I felt guilty when I was
working on my business because I was not with my children. And I felt guilty
when I was around them all the time and not working, making money.
This was the most confusing and frustrating time. Three times
I was at the edge of giving up on my dream of running a successful business.
On day was so torn apart and stressed out that I sat down
and thought about the options I had:
The first one that came to my mind was to wait a few years
until my children were older and going to school. I could be there 100% for
them and be a good mom.
or
I could give it a go and focus 100% on my business and make
more than enough income to provide for my family.
To be honest, neither of the options was making my heart sing.
I couldn't see myself doing one or the other alone.
The thing is, I have big dreams and a desire to make a
difference in the world. AND I really want to be the best mom I can be.
I want my children to be proud of me. I want them to know I
love them very much and honor and respect my dreams and goals too. That is what
I want them to do, too. Follow their dreams.
So my best option was to figure out how to have the best
of both worlds.
I wanted to feel a sense of control over my life and have
some kind of structure in my household. I wanted to be able to pursue my
business dreams even if I had a busy life.
My solution
The first thing I did was search for everything that could
help me organize my home quickly and easily. I read books, signed up for
workshops, purchased online courses about paper-clutter, home-management,
time-management and productivity.
Of all the tips, methods and systems that I've learned and
implemented in my own home and life, some worked for us and some didn't.
I realized that there was NOT ONE single system or method that suited my needs as both a mom AND as an entrepreneur.
I realized that there was NOT ONE single system or method that suited my needs as both a mom AND as an entrepreneur.
This is how my current business Smart Creative Mompreneur
was born.
Now I work with other mompreneurs who want to build their
businesses AND spend more quality time with their family, without the guilt and
overwhelm.
My clients not only work more productively from home, and get
big things done, but also find happiness as they pursue their dreams.
We as mompreneurs are not running one business, but two or
more businesses at the same time. Your family IS your business too.
If you want to learn how to manage your home and business
efficiently come on over to Smart Creative Mompreneur (URL) and get yourFREE e-book The 7 Time-Saving Secrets for Busy Moms.
Thank you Keaidy for sharing my blog on your website. I really apriciate it!
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